As with many other cultures across the world, Zambian weddings consist of various traditions that take place before and on the wedding day. Each ritual carries symbolic meaning and often involves the extended families of the couple, making the occasion a grand communal celebration. While there are several practices to be followed, here are some of the main traditions that play an important part in Zambian weddings.

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Icisumina Nsalamu

This signifies the acceptance of the groom’s marriage proposal. It is conducted by the bride’s family who prepares a dish of Nshima – a traditional Maize porridge – and a plate of chicken for the groom.

Icilanga Mulilo

This ritual acts as an invitation to the groom to dine with the bride’s family during future visits, as prior to this the groom is never allowed to share a meal at the home of the bride’s parents. Several traditional dishes are prepared and served for the groom who is expected to take a serving from each dish.

Lobola

Like in many other cultures, weddings in Zambia include a tradition wherein a lobola or dowry payment is made by the groom to the bride’s family in appreciation for her good upbringing. The lobola is often presented before the wedding and usually consists of money in urban settings, and livestock in rural areas.

Ama Shikulo

This happens at the end of the wedding and is included in modern ceremonies held in hotels like Avani Victoria Falls Resort. At this stage, the families of the bride and groom gather together next to the couple as they begin to receive well wishes from attendees and guests.